Hi! Relationships are a lot of work. That doesn’t mean yours is headed for doom! IMO it means both people are realizing that they can’t read each others’ minds (FACT!) and that the journey of knowing ourselves and others is lifelong and evolves constantly (ALSO FACT!). This book has a ton of great worksheets to help couples begin/continue conversations. I find the workbook pages 24-31 (pdf pages 31-39) especially important as they discuss identifying problems and dealing with technology use.